The 2021 Advent Season

 

Introduction

In the Advent Season, we prepare for Christmas. In our family, our domestic church, there are some things we do differently. For example, at the beginning of the O Antiphons on December 17th, the Legionaries of Christ used to begin setting up Christmas decorations, a little bit each day at a time. Our family has taken this (and other things) and adapted it for our own use. There are various things from the Ordinary and Extraordinary Forms that I have taken together, like "a householder, who bringeth forth out of his treasure new things and old" (St. Matthew 13:52). So much treasure has been lost throwing away the old, and so much refreshment has been lost rejecting the new, so I strive to revive the good that is old and accept the good that is new. This is the plan for our domestic church, striving to live the Advent Season of the Church's Liturgical Year.

Our Domestic Church's Advent

First Sunday of Advent: Begin writing annual Christmas Letter. Begin reading from Dom Gueranger’s The Liturgical Year for each day of Advent (after dark, light the appropriate amount of candles depending on the day, and read those excerpts by candle-light; as we light more candles in our approach of Christmas, it should get easier to read said excerpts).

November 29th, St. Saturninus of Toulouse. The Novena to the Immaculate Conception begins. When I was a Legionary of Christ, this Novena became one of my favorite novenas due to the beauty and timeliness of the prayer of Pope Pius XII.

December 1st, St. Edmund Campion. The Jesse Tree story begins.

Second Sunday of Advent: Finalize Christmas Letter and send out Christmas cards. This was previously done on Gaudete Sunday, but when the mail service announced delayed deliveries earlier this year, we moved it up a week.

December 6th, St. Nicholas. The tradition is for the children to place their shoes outside or next to the fireplace so that St. Nicholas can fill them with chocolate coins and oranges and candy canes. The chocolate coins and oranges are to remind us of the story that St. Nicholas gave away some of his money to a woodcutter so that his daughters would not be sold into slavery: St. Nicholas dropped some bags of gold coins through the chimney so there was enough to save his daughters from a wretched life. The candy canes are because they are in the shape of a Bishop’s crosier, and St. Nicholas was a Bishop. There is a Blessing of Candy Canes done on this feast. We leave out some cookies for St. Nicholas, and also a carrot for his horse. One tradition I would like to begin when the children get older is the tradition of the scrolls from St. Nicholas to each child.

December 7th, St. Ambrose of Milan, Vigil of the Immaculate Conception. Conclusion of the Novena to the Immaculate Conception.

December 8th, The Immaculate Conception. A consecration of our family to the Immaculate Conception is made on this day. 

December 9th, St. Juan Diego. The Triduum to Our Lady of Guadalupe begins.

December 10th, Our Lady of Loreto. Pope Francis ordered that this feast be inserted into the General Roman Calendar as an Optional Memorial for the Ordinary Form. 

December 11th, St. Damasus I. Conclusion of the Triduum to Our Lady of Guadalupe.

December 12th, Our Lady of Guadalupe. This day, we read the story of the appearance of Our Lady to Juan Diego. It is especially wise to meditate this day on the consoling and beautiful words of Our Lady. On this day, we also make a consecration to Our Lady of Guadalupe. 

December 13th, St. Lucy. Lucy means “Light”. On the Sunday before this feast, we bring our strands of Christmas lights to the church to be blessed by a priest. On the feast itself, we check the strands of lights, replacing any bulbs as needed. Then, we put them aside as we wait for the great Christmastide, when we will enjoy them on the tree, lighting up the family room in a most glorious fashion. On this feastday in Italian homes, it is also the Feast of Lights. The young girls in the family dress in white and wear a wreath around the head with lit candles on it (if we were to follow this practice as our daughter gets older, we would not include lit candles on the wreath, but we could do a lit candle in her hand). In our home, there is a special blessing for the little girl from me, the father of the family, on this day. The Italian song Santa Lucia is among my favorites. I sang at least one verse of this beautiful song when I was a Legionary of Christ. This is also a special day because it is the wedding anniversary of my parents.

Gaudete Sunday (Third Sunday of Advent), Advent Embertide. We begin the week reminded of joy, and we end the week in fasting and in abstinence. It seems to me that the revival of Embertides (and Rogationtide) would go a long way to renewing a healthy respect for nature, not the neo-pagan worship of nature that we seem to be evolving towards as of late.

December 16th, The Christmas Novena begins.

December 17th, The O Antiphons begin. Christmas decorating begins. Christmas tree goes up today.

December 18th, The Expectation of the Blessed Virgin Mary. Put Christmas lights on the tree. Once on, leave lights off until the evening of Christmas Eve (or after Midnight Mass when the whole family attends). 

December 19th. Put ball ornaments on the tree.

December 20th, Vigil of St. Thomas the Apostle. Put other ornaments on the tree.

December 21st, St. Thomas the Apostle; Winter Solstice, First Day of Winter. Replace fall decor with Christmas decor.

December 22nd, St. Frances Xavier Cabrini. Put up Christmas wreathes, especially on the front door as a witness to the nations (O Rex Gentium – O King of the Nations).

December 23rd, O Emmanuel. Change liturgical color of, and assemble Nativity set on, home altar or fireplace mantle.

December 24th, Christmas Eve, Sts. Adam and Eve. Jesse Tree story ends. Christmas novena ends. Put tree skirt under tree. In the evening, after the Vigil Mass in the Ordinary Form (which I call the “Mass of Saint Joseph” due to the Gospel reading), add the angel to top of the tree. Then there is the family blessing of the Christmas tree (this one really isn't a blessing of the tree but of all of us who enjoy it) followed by this blessing (which really is a blessing of the tree). During the first blessing, the tree lights are lit. Before the children go to bed, they leave cookies for Santa Clause (the Christ Child’s delivery man) and apples for his reindeer.